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Let children see the stories of both girls and boys as interesting, engaging, and worth exploring.
Let’s
Stop Labeling Books as Boy Books or Girl Books
by
Janssen Bradshaw
I have four young
daughters, ranging in ages from 4 to 11. Which means that one of the most
frequent questions I get on my blog or Instagram is, “but can you recommend
some books for boys?”
I noticed this
particularly the first time my 11-year-old daughter recommended several books
she loved on my blog.
After these
questions started rolling in, I took a second look at the books she’d
recommended.
The surprising thing
was that the titles she’d suggested were an even split between books with male
protagonists and female protagonists. Still, many parents couldn’t fathom that
their sons might enjoy these books because a girl recommended them.
It’s such a shame
when we, as parents, teachers, or librarians, automatically assume that a boy
wouldn’t enjoy a story with a female protagonist.
Girls read books with male protagonists
all. the. time. and no one thinks twice about it. It would be laughable for
someone to see a girl reading a Harry Potter novel and say, “I
can’t believe you’re reading that boy book.”
The sad truth is
that often, we assume books with male main characters are for everyone, and
books with female main characters are only for girls.
And this is a
lose-lose situation.
It’s a disservice to
boys because it cuts them off from so many great stories and characters.
It’s also bad for
the boys who want to read those stories because they feel embarrassed about
their reading choices.
I’ll never forget
when I talked about this topic on my Instagram Stories. One mother told me
about her son who loves The
Baby-Sitters Club books but
asked her to take him to another library branch outside their city. He was
afraid that his friends would see him checking out the books and tease him.
And it’s bad for
both boys and girls when the assumption is that stories starring female
characters are niche and only interesting for girls — that a boy couldn’t
possibly be interested in the adventures of a girl.
It sends the message
that girls are inherently less interesting, less worthy, and less universal.
And because one of
the best parts of literature is that it helps us understand other life
experiences, boys lose out on seeing the world through the lens of a female
protagonist. This leaves them less able to understand the world around them and
the people who live in it.
No one wins when we
label books “boy books” or “girl books.”
Of course, I’m not
saying we should force our children (boys or girls!) to read books they have no
interest in reading.
I am saying
that we shouldn’t label books or assume boys only want to read stories with
male protagonists. If a boy asks for a mystery book, we can offer several
options to choose from, with both female and male characters.
When we’re
suggesting books to our children or students, we can also do a better job
selling them. Instead of saying, “This is a girl book, but I think you’ll like
it,” you can say something like, “This
is a great fantasy series. Lots of readers who loved Harry Potter also
loved this one. It’s funny and action-packed, and you won’t believe what
happens in chapter three.”
And when we read books aloud, buy them as
gifts, or help children and students pick out library books, we should rotate
between novels with female and male main characters. Let children see the
stories of both girls and boys as interesting, engaging, and worth exploring.
Books can open up a whole new world
to our young readers. Let’s not slam half that world shut in the faces of the
boys.